mean = funny? nice = boring? is this a question of hard v soft?
do we need a new word for “nice”. why are all the words associated with niceness so uncool: generosity, openness, kindness, empathy, space… all these things associated with maturity. why isn’t maturity fucking awesome? it sounds it to me. but even the word mature is equated with the flaccidity of a shoulder shrug.
what if anything will change?
